Every woman is aware of the futility of getting involved with a man who is emotionally unavailable. It is clear from the experiences of many women that it is simply impossible to change them; thus the best option is to stay away from them.

After learning of the negatives, you may have taken a decision that it is best to stay away from emotionally unavailable men. Now the question is: how do you differentiate between them and the others? Even though they have qualities (rather vices), which set them apart from others, you will need to be a little observant to make the right differentiation. Of course, once you have identified the ones falling in that category, your job becomes much easier.

Differentiate Between Emotionally Unavailable Men and Available Men

Men who are emotionally unavailable are not introverts and yet they aren’t extroverts. They have a capacity to pull people towards them and yet they do not let them get too close. This mish-mash of closeness and indifference puts your relationship with such a man on a constant roller coaster of highs and lows. It is only a question of time before you give up.

In due course, he will come out in the open and suggest that ‘he wants to keep his options open’. He is basically trying to say that he wants more than you and this is a typical characteristic of an emotionally unavailable man.

One more characteristic of such a man is his emotional volatility and instability. He is hardly aware of what he wants and in his confusion, ends up winding up relationships even with a normal and stable woman like you. A look at his past relationships is a reflection of his inconsistent choices and unstable preferences. No matter how hard you try, you can never change him. Never step into a relationship with such a man thinking that you will change him; it will never happen.

It is every woman’s dream to be the only one for her man. In case of an emotionally unstable man, it is highly unlikely that you will be able to achieve that. Since an emotionally unstable man is not sure of what he really wants, there is a good possibility that even when he has you in his life, he will still be unsatisfied and looking out for other ‘opportunities’.

Initially, everything may seem hunky-dory but as soon as he starts feeling the burden of emotions and stability, he starts whimpering. It is just not in the nature of an emotionally unstable man to be in a stable relationship for long. Period.

It is thus widely established that it is a stupid idea to get involved with an emotionally unstable man. It is certainly more of a risk than anything else. If you spot them beforehand and maintain a good distance, you can ensure that you will not be a pawn in a relationship with such a man.

For those women who are already stuck with such a man, it is best to evaluate his plans and intentions. If you think it is highly impossible to deal with it, you should walk out as soon as possible. However, even if you think it is possible to deal with his whims, carefully evaluate your emotions. If you are compromising too much, you better be aware that it is not worthwhile; such emotionally unavailable men will very often not think twice before walking out on you.

Many people have heard the term, “a body like a Greek god,” but never really thought about what this means. What exactly was the Grecian ideal body?

Contrary to what some might think, the Grecian ideal body was not a bodybuilding physique. The perfect body was not massive and “ripped” like Mr. Universe. Looking at Greek statues, one can see that the Grecian ideal body looked like a swimmer’s or a boxer’s body.

The most important thing about the Grecian ideal physique is that everything is in perfect proportion. The shoulders should be considerably wider than the waistline, for instance. And the arms, neck and calves should be similar in size. There’s also a relationship between the size of the thighs and the neck, and so on.

Many modern bodybuilders have certainly got very impressive and strong physiques, but they are too big to have the Grecian ideal body. The proportions just don’t match.

So how do you get the Grecian ideal physique? Well, if you want a body like a statue, you should start to think like a sculptor! Instead of hammers, chisels, rasps and sandpaper, you will use weights, cardio and nutrition as your tools.

The concept of phasing is very important. When a sculptor makes a statue, does he do exactly the same kind of work on it for months on end? Of course not. He uses a whole range of tools and techniques, each one at the correct time. He starts by carving out the basic form from a chunk of stone, then he adds details, and finally he polishes it.

To get the Grecian ideal body, you should phase your training in a similar way. The first stage is to develop your basic V-shape, in other words wide shoulders and narrow waist. Once that is achieved, start paying more attention to details like individual body parts. And once all your parts match the ideal proportions, you should switch your focus to increasing definition and putting the finishing touches on your body. When you have finished, your body will shine just like a polished statue.

A mistake many people make is they jump into the final phase too soon. They try polishing their body with so-called “toning” and “defining” exercises before they have even got the basic shape right. That would be like a sculptor trying to turn a block of stone into a finished statue using only sandpaper. Would it ever work? I doubt it. But even if it did work, it would take a lot longer than if he had gone about it the right way.

You just broke up with your ex and now she is dating someone else a.k.a a rebound relationship. So, can you get her back and how do you get her back? Well, let’s first discuss what exactly is a rebound relationship. It is a relationship that happens right after a breakup because your ex is trying to get over you.

You see, rebound relationships is a tool that folks use so they don’t have to deal with the pain and emotions of breaking up. In short, they are using other people to move on from a real love (that would be you).

So the key thing to remember about rebound relationships is that she is using another guy to deal with losing you.

And here is another key thing to keep in mind, it really doesn’t matter why she lost you or whether not not it was your fault or hers. All that really matters is you really do have a real love between each other.

And the reason I say this is because just about every single relationship I know of that was real and based on real love can be saved!

Yes! You heard me right. Your relationship can be saved if it was based on true love for each other.

Usually when someone is in a rebound relationship, they are focused on doing the opposite of what your relationship was like. And why? She is trying to avoid the problems that happened with the relationship with you. So if you are a good guy, she will be dating a “bad boy.” Or if you were quiet and introspective, she may be dating a outwardly and bomastic kind of guy. Get the drift. Opposites.

But the very fact that your ex is focusing on the differences between you and the other dude is actually good news for you for 2 reasons. She is still thinking about you while she is with the other guy (the other guy won’t be happy about hearing that!). And the second thing is you can find out exactly what she is looking for in a relationship.

So use the rebound relationship to your advantage to determine what she wants. What she was missing. And use that time apart from her to make little changes in yourself.
Now, this is going to be a little difficult for some guys to take, but let the rebound relationship run its course. Don’t put any pressure on her or freak her out by doing anything stressful. Just relax and wait it out. After a while she will begin to see flaws in him (they mostly do) and after a month or more you are going to start looking a whole lot better to her.

This is why you do not want to rush back to her and fight for your relationship. It is always better to let her find out that she misses the great times she had with you that she isn’t getting from the new guy. But just be ready if she does make an attempt to get back with you. Be nice. Be very gentle and understanding. And above all, be that new and improved model of a boyfriend. But do not chase after her because it is the worst thing you can do. You will actually make her more determined to stick it out with her new boyfriend.

To sum it up. Here is what you will be doing if she is in a rebound relationship:

1) Stay away. Let her figure out that you were the love of her life.

2) If you did something wrong that caused the breakup, only apologize once. Anymore, and you will lose points in her eyes. So apologize if you did wrong just once and then just move on with your life.

3) Stop watching those Hollywood movies for making up tips! Do not make any promises to change because the original you is the guy she fell in love with. However, that doesn’t mean you cannot make some small changes. But don’t tell her that.

4) Don’t use any logic! It doesn’t work. I see this all the time. Folks trying to make the other person see that it wasn’t their fault logically. So don’t do it. Take it for sure that your ex is smart enough to know the difference. On her own.

5) And this is probably the most important advice I can give you. Do not ever beg her to take you back. If you do, you might as well pack it in because it ain’t happening.
So here it is again, you just learned that your ex is in a rebound relationship to get over you. And you do have a fighting chance but you have to give her some room to figure that out on her own. And the key thing is being in a rebound relationship most likely means she is still in love with you. Good luck buddy.